Their First Mistake
16 Maret 2010 oleh billfoley1973|
IMDB rating: 7.20 Plot: Mrs. Hardy is irate that her husband Oliver spends more time with his friend Stanley than with her. Oliver decides to adopt a baby, hoping that it will keep his wife occupied so that he and Stanley can continue to carouse. But upon returning home with the infant, they find a process server with a divorce summons, and spend a sleepless night caring for the squalling baby. |
Actors: Laurel Stan,Hardy Oliver,Gilbert Billy,Marshall George,Comedy,Short,
Confused, is this abusive or normal? Please help…?
I’m just wondering if my parents were at all abusive (mostly my mother):
My dad one time got so mad at me (I’m not sure what, I don’t remember as I was young) where he spanked me. Which I guess is fine, but apart from occasional taps on the bum I wasn’t really spanked. I remember the bruise was HUGE. Purple and painful, and my mom was scared let me go to a swim meet because you could see it when my swimsuit was on. Like… Huge. It never happened again and I never really questioned it… But my dad is usually an extremely calm and docile person. Every once and a while though, he goes ballistic and rages horribly to the point that he’s calling me names (say if my room is dirty, he’ll call me a disgusting pig, he usually just calls me a bitch though) and I’m actually terrified that he’s going to hit me (he balls up his fists, but usually just hits the wall). The raging only started once my parents got divorced.
My mom on the other hand I just always thought was a manipulative bitch, I wasn’t really aware she was doing anything wrong. Every weekend was a war, where she’d scream and rage to no end, putting all of her effort into cleaning the house, freaking out on me and my brother and dad constantly. I was always cautious around her because I never knew what her mood was. She always complained about her job on the week days, which got her more stressed and angry. That was when I was young, and I learned to hate her during the divorce. Now I live with my dad and whenever I see her (rarely), she always asks things like "what did I do to deserve this?" and whatnot, making it my fault. She won’t accept her mistakes (the divorce was all her fault but she won’t accept that no matter what I say).
I’m 15 now, and have been freaking out a lot because I’m scared I’m going to turn into my mom. Do you think this is considered emotional or verbal abuse? And the hit I received when I was younger? I’m a little confused about it all… I feel like I don’t even know who I am. I’ve suffered through depression and was medicated a lot because the divorce was extremely difficult, but I feel like I’m going back into it…